February is the best month of the year for ritual and magical work on love, and I’m eternally inspired by all of the great love stories of history. I’m most inspired by the tale of Psyche and Cupid, which is the central inspiration for the Erotic Love Ritual Set. Psyche was dauntingly beautiful, so much so that Venus herself sent her son Cupid to make her fall in love with a monster in order to avoid competing with such a beauty. Much to the goddess’ dismay, Cupid fell in love with Psyche just by viewing her unprecedented beauty. Psyche remained isolated in a castle, tested by Venus, and passed every obstacle in order to return to her lover. Cupid pleaded with Jupiter to make Venus leave Psyche alone and after she agreed, Psyche and Cupid indulged their deepest passion for each other.
This ritual set honors love, not just romantic love, but the deep down, fire-burning, erotic soul love that defies space and time. In Greek, this love is known as eros, which is also the name of the Erotic Love oil blend I created just for this ritual set. Each stone was hand-picked, the oil intentionally blended, and the candle rolled with soul unifying energy. And then to top it off, at no additional cost, this month’s set includes a Love Wish bottle full of clear quartz and rainbow tourmaline stones. Keep the entire set in your bedroom or on your love altar space to hold energies of erotic love, bonding, sexual attraction, and a connection that mirrors the intense and beautiful union of Cupid and his beloved Psyche.
My Eros perfume in this set is inspired by the Greek God of Love by the same name; it is designed to conjure sexual attraction and desire. Blended with oils specifically for summoning and attracting, the smell is intoxicating and spellbinding. When I put this on, I feel the swift movement of Cupid’s intoxicating arrow; my pulse quickens, and my heart swells with desire. The main notes are two types of jasmine, deepened with blackberry, boysenberry, tickled with pure rose from Tunisia, pure labdanum from the Middle East, pure lotus from Asia. Complex, piquant, and effortlessly seductive, there’s nothing like Eros in my collection. It has become a fast favorite among all the girls who work with me at SG. It smells different on each of us, but similarly seductive no matter how our chemistry interacts with its potent ingredients. Summon the timeless sexual charisma of Eros, and achieve a love of mythological proportions, using this blend.
The Erotic Love candle is rolled with intention, the oil of Eros, and spiraling layers of beeswax in rose, lavender and gold. Pink tourmaline chip stones reside within each layer, spreading heart chakra energies of love and wisdom.
And now for the gems in the stone set this month: Pink opal heals the heart and opens the heart to love. It brings depth, perception and helps one connect to their deeper feelings. Silver Topaz comes from the Greek word tapazos, which means to seek. White topaz is the most powerful of all crown chakra stones, bringing the bearer deep clarity of purpose and connection to Source. It is incredibly powerful for manifestation and bringing things into being. It also brings to you what you seek. Orange calcite magnetizes sexual energy around you, amplifies your creative energy center and draws high vibrations toward it – and toward you. Unakite jasper is a blend of red jasper and green epidote. It’s a master heart healer, a stone of emotional integration that helps us heal ourselves and love ourselves fully. It said that in order to love another, we must first love ourselves. Unakite solidifies the love for yourself and like a ripple, sends it to your partner. Rhodonite is perfect for anyone doing heart work. The stone of forgiving yourself and others, deepening your compassion for others, and opening your heart after being hurt or wounded. You can only attract the divine Union of Souls once your heart is open to that level of connection. And of course, a clear quartz point to magnify the energies of all the other stones.
Lastly, the multi-tourmaline and clear quartz Love Wish jar that comes with this set should be kept on your sex or love altar space, or near your bedroom where energies of love and connection naturally develop and reside. I use my Wish Jar like this one in meditation, visualizing a wish for love entering each of the stones within. The jar then becomes a sacred amulet representing your wishes, holding them and raising their vibration, to help you attract the love you seek.
This incredible listing is for one (1) beeswax pillar candle, six (6) gemstones, and one (1) roller bottle of Eros oil and anointing blend. May it bless all of us as we do our sacred work in this season of love.
Aho, and so it shall be.